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October 30, 2025 8:55 pm
I’m a single mom in Wisconsin, and my child’s father has been refusing to pay child support. He claims he isn’t the father, even though we were together at the time of conception. I already have my baby’s birth certificate, which lists him as the father, but now he’s trying to deny it and avoid his responsibilities. I’m wondering if the birth certificate alone is enough to establish paternity legally, or if I need to take additional steps to prove it in court to get the support my child deserves. Any advice would be appreciated!
Hello Cristina,
I understand how frustrating and overwhelming this situation must be for you. It can be difficult when the father of your child refuses to take responsibility, especially when you know he was involved during the conception.
In Wisconsin, while having the father’s name on the birth certificate is an important step, it doesn’t automatically establish legal paternity or the obligation to pay child support. If the father is now denying paternity, you may need to take further steps to formally establish it.
Here’s what you can do:
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Voluntary Paternity Acknowledgment (VPA): If the father agrees, you can both sign a form at the hospital or later at a local child support agency, acknowledging that he is the father. This will officially establish paternity and allow you to move forward with child support and other legal matters.
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Court-Ordered Paternity Test: If he denies paternity, you can petition the court to order a genetic test. If the test shows that he is the biological father (usually with a 99% or higher probability), the court will legally recognize him as the father and he will be responsible for child support.
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Child Support Agency Assistance: You can also work with your local child support agency, which can help initiate a genetic test and enforce paternity if needed.
If the father refuses to comply with any court-ordered testing, he could face legal consequences, such as being held in contempt of court.
While this process can take time, it’s important to know that you have legal options to ensure your child receives the support they deserve. If you’re feeling unsure about the next steps, you may want to reach out to a family law attorney or contact your local child support office for guidance. They can help you navigate the process and ensure your rights—and your child’s rights—are protected.
I hope this helps, and I’m wishing you the best as you work through this challenging situation.